I’m going to guess that a lot of us get stuck in the rage stage of faith deconstruction. It is a trauma response. Without recognizing it, we are grieving the loss of our former faith, friends, and family. The anger masks the overwhelming and often debilitating feeling of loss.

This is my queer body, broken for you.

Sometimes the most oppressive, controlling, and domineering forces in life are close friends and family, or at least the folks who knew you when.

Have you ever just wanted a roadmap or guide to deconstruction? Here’s some help.

At some point in your faith deconstruction journey, you are going to have to ask the big question: Do I even stay Christian?